grinshaws:
[looks you in the eyes, pats your knee sympathetically] i don’t care
intersectionalityis4lovers:
- don’t trust men who have to insult other women in order to compliment you
- a subset of this rule is don’t trust men who say ‘you’re pretty/smart/[adjective] for an indian/asian/[identity group]’
- or ‘you’re not like other [identity group optional] girls’